40 Questions for Your Best Friend
Best friends know almost everything about each other. Almost. These questions for your best friend go to the places everyday life skips: what they admire about you, when you let them down, what they wish for your friendship ten years from now. They work for friends of any gender.
Take an evening, take turns asking a question and both answer before moving on. HYTCH gives you exactly that as a daily ritual, and with the prediction mode you can guess what the other person will answer before you see the real one.
The questions
About your friendship
- 1
What was the moment you realised we were best friends?
- 2
What do you especially appreciate about me but have never said?
- 3
What do you know about me that nobody else knows?
- 4
What was the best day we ever had together?
- 5
What was the biggest change in our friendship, and was it a good one?
- 6
How would you describe me to someone who does not know me?
- 7
When did you last think: I am glad you exist?
- 8
What is the most honest thing I have ever said to you?
- 9
What was the best decision we made together, and the worst?
- 10
Which story about us will you tell your grandchildren?
The unspoken
- 11
When did you need me and I was not there?
- 12
What about me have you stopped commenting on?
- 13
When did you last feel overlooked by me?
- 14
What do you think about me that you do not dare to say out loud?
- 15
Was there a time you thought our friendship was over?
- 16
What have I never given back to you, and I do not just mean things?
- 17
What are you sometimes jealous of in our friendship?
- 18
What do you really think of the people I have been with?
- 19
Which piece of advice for me did you hold back even though you wanted to give it?
- 20
What would you change about me if you were allowed to?
How well do you know me
- 21
What is my biggest fear, and how do you know?
- 22
What do I dream of without ever having said it out loud?
- 23
Where would I go if I could disappear on a whim?
- 24
Which decision in my life would you undo if you could?
- 25
How do you notice I am not doing well before I say it?
- 26
How can you tell when I am holding myself together?
- 27
What is the one thing I should be more proud of?
- 28
Which compliment would land hardest with me?
- 29
What do I talk about too much, and what too little?
- 30
What would I change in my life if nobody was watching?
For the future
- 31
What does our friendship look like when we are both 60?
- 32
What do you need more from me right now: distraction or an honest conversation?
- 33
What should I do when you say everything is fine but I do not believe it?
- 34
What should we absolutely still experience together?
- 35
What should best friends never expect from each other, in your opinion?
- 36
What makes me a good friend, and what not yet?
- 37
If one of us moves away, how do we keep this alive?
- 38
Which promise would you like to make me?
- 39
What have you never thanked me for, even though you wanted to?
- 40
Which question have you asked yourself about me but never out loud?