Conversation questions
Questions that change conversations
Curated questions for couples, friends, family and new acquaintances. Free, to take to the kitchen table, the car or the couch.
- 100 questions
Questions for Couples
100 questions for couples, from light to deep: for the evening on the couch, date night and the conversations you keep postponing. About closeness, everyday life, your story and your future.
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Questions Instead of Card Decks, Online and Free
40 questions for an evening together, in four rounds like a card deck, only online and free. For everyone looking for a question game for couples without buying a deck.
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Questions to Get to Know Someone
100 questions to get to know someone that reveal more than job and hobbies. Icebreakers, first date questions, questions for new friends and colleagues, and deeper questions for everyone who wants to skip small talk.
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Deep Questions
60 deep questions about fear, meaning, forgiveness and what remains. For conversations you cannot have on the side: with your partner, close friends or yourself.
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Questions for Friends
40 questions for friends that go beyond "how is it going?". For old friendships, new friendships and everyone who wants to feel close again.
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Questions for Your Best Friend
40 questions for your best friend that show how well you really know each other. About your friendship, unspoken things and what you still have not asked after all these years.
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Questions for Family
40 questions for parents, children, siblings and grandparents. For Sunday dinner, long car rides and the conversations you should not postpone forever.
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Questions to Ask Your Parents
40 questions to ask your parents that you should not postpone forever. About their youth, their wishes, their mistakes and the things they never told you. For Sunday visits, long drives and phone calls.
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How Well Do You Know Me? Questions
40 "how well do you know me" questions for couples, best friends and family. Guess first, then hear the real answer. From easy facts to the things you only know if you really listen.
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How to use them
How questions turn into real conversations
A good question alone is not enough. What happens next decides whether it becomes a conversation or an interview. Five things that make the difference.
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One question is enough
Take one question, not ten. Depth does not come from quantity, it comes from staying with one thing.
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Answer first yourself
Whoever asks should answer too. Otherwise the other person feels interrogated instead of invited.
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Follow up instead of moving on
The first answer is rarely the whole one. A simple "what do you mean by that?" takes you further than the next question on the list.
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Allow silences
Silence does not mean the conversation stalled. Usually it means someone is actually thinking.
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There is no right answer
It is not about answering well. It is about answering honestly, even when the answer is unfinished.
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