40 Questions for Friends
Friendships live on time, but not only on time. Many friends have known each other for years and still do not know what the other is afraid of right now or what they are proud of. These questions for friends turn a shared evening into a conversation you will remember.
The list works one on one just as well as in a group. Ask a question, let each person answer, and follow up instead of jumping to the next topic. With Hytch Live you play exactly that with three to ten people in the same room.
The questions
- 1
What was the moment you realised we were real friends?
- 2
What do you admire about me without ever having said it?
- 3
What is on your mind right now that you do not talk to anyone about?
- 4
When did I last let you down, and what would you have needed?
- 5
What is your favourite memory with me?
- 6
What are you most proud of this year?
- 7
What matters to you but never comes up in our conversations?
- 8
How has our friendship changed over the past few years?
- 9
What would you tell me if you knew I would not be offended?
- 10
Which side of me do only you know?
- 11
What was a decision where you wished you had asked for my advice?
- 12
What scares you most right now?
- 13
When do you feel lonely in groups?
- 14
What did I mean to you in hard times?
- 15
What have I learned from you without you knowing?
- 16
Which dream have you given up on, and was that the right call?
- 17
What do you think of the way I handle stress?
- 18
Which friendship have you lost, and what did you take from it?
- 19
Do you call when you are struggling, or wait until someone asks?
- 20
How do you want me to support you when you are not doing well?
- 21
What is the most honest thing anyone has ever told you?
- 22
Where do you feel I do not take you seriously?
- 23
What do you wish for our friendship five years from now?
- 24
Which habit of mine annoys you, and why do you not say so?
- 25
What role do I play in your life, in one sentence?
- 26
What was a moment you felt especially close to me?
- 27
Which part of your life do you never show your friends?
- 28
What do you talk about too much, and what too little?
- 29
Which praise from someone you barely knew still stays with you today?
- 30
What is a question you do not like asking yourself?
- 31
When did you last cry, and does anyone know?
- 32
What is the best thing that has happened to you in our friendship?
- 33
What makes you a good friend, and what not yet?
- 34
What does loyalty mean to you?
- 35
Who do you miss right now?
- 36
When is a friendship over for you, even without a falling out?
- 37
Do you keep score in friendships of who gives how much?
- 38
Which memory of us will still make you smile at 80?
- 39
Which person from your past would you like to meet once more?
- 40
What is the one question you have wanted to ask me for a long time?