40 Questions Instead of Card Decks, Online and Free
Question cards work because they do the work for you: draw a card, read it out, talk. That is what this page does, without shipping and without a price. Four rounds, 40 questions, from light to honest. Read them out on your phone, top to bottom, taking turns.
People who land here are usually looking for a question game for couples, conversation cards, or a German version of games like We're Not Really Strangers and Vertellis. The difference to a card set: it keeps going once the cards run out. In HYTCH you get a new question every day, you both answer, and only then do you see the other person's answer. The basic version is free.
The questions
Round 1: Warming up
- 1
What surprised you this week?
- 2
What would you drop everything for right now?
- 3
Which inside joke of ours still makes you laugh?
- 4
Which small thing about me do you keep noticing?
- 5
What would you do if this evening never ended?
- 6
Which place in our city do you like most, and why?
- 7
What did you last treat yourself to without feeling guilty?
- 8
Which song would play as the theme tune for our evening?
- 9
What would you like to do more often but never get around to?
- 10
When did you last feel really relaxed today?
Round 2: Getting closer
- 11
How can you tell that I am having a bad day?
- 12
What do you think I miss most about my earlier life?
- 13
Which habit of mine would you miss if it disappeared?
- 14
What do you believe I can do that I do not believe myself?
- 15
Which gesture of mine tells you more than any sentence?
- 16
What did you learn about love before you met me?
- 17
Which part of you do you show only to me?
- 18
What would you change about our everyday life if it bothered nobody?
- 19
When did you last think that we are a good team?
- 20
What about our relationship sometimes scares you?
Round 3: Getting honest
- 21
What do you stay quiet about because you think it is not important enough?
- 22
What have you forgiven me for without ever mentioning it?
- 23
When were you close to telling me something important and then let it go?
- 24
What do you expect from me but have never said out loud?
- 25
Which version of yourself have you set aside for me?
- 26
On which topic do you wish I would ask first?
- 27
When did you last lie to spare me?
- 28
Which habit have you picked up from me?
- 29
What are you sometimes envious of in me?
- 30
What do you need from me right now that you do not want to ask for?
Round 4: What stays
- 31
What should people remember when they think of us?
- 32
Which decision of ours do you never want to regret?
- 33
What do you want to still be doing together in ten years?
- 34
Which habit of ours should stay forever?
- 35
What would you tell our younger selves about this time?
- 36
What would a good life together look like for you, without big words?
- 37
Which sentence of mine will you not forget?
- 38
What do you want me to know about you, even if you would never bring it up yourself?
- 39
What has changed in you that only I noticed?
- 40
How do you want this evening to end for you?